When it comes to making a person with a vulva orgasm, most folks need more than plain old penetration. Your penis is great and all , but only a quarter of vulva owners routinely come during vaginal intercourse —which means a lot of people need some form of clitoral stimulation in order to climax. Packed with nerve endings, the clitoris is one of the most sensitive erogenous zones. It has around 8, nerve endings , which is double the number in a penis, FYI. So what can you do to give your partner a mind-blowing clitoral orgasm? Well, for starters, make sure you know where to find the clitoris: at the top of the vulva, just under the spot where the inner labia meet.
How to Stimulate the Clitoris
7 Things Everyone Gets Wrong About The Clitoris | SELF
If your partner has a vulva, odds are, they need more than P-in-V penetration in order to orgasm. They need direct and consistent clitoral stimulation. The clitoris has around 8, nerve endings , which is roughly double the number in a penis. The full clitoris is shaped kind of like a wishbone, and extends up to five inches inside the body. There are still certain techniques and preferred ways to touch the clitoris.
7 Things Everyone Gets Wrong About The Clitoris
It's important to know what you're working with down there, so grab a mirror, spread 'em, and check out the glans of the clitoris and the hood, says Amy Levine, sex coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure. This is helpful not just to explore different sensations and various types of touch with your sight as a guide, but because what you see affects how you get off. Turns out, size and location matter. Studies have shown that the bigger and closer to the vagina the clitoris is, the easier it is to orgasm. Obviously, you can't really do anything about the size and location of your clit, but getting acquainted with your body's geography is just responsible, fun, and informative.
Click here to get it. Think of this guide on clit stimulation as an extension of my other masturbation guide here. Note To Men: You guys can also perform these techniques to help give your partner more intense orgasms more often.